
Unfortunately, even though I got a new (very nice) camera and memory card for this trip, on the two out-of-country excursions I have taken, my camera has deleted all my pictures. After taking about 300 photos in Paris, I have 12 to show for it. Everything is gone. I will probably have to end up paying a techie person a few hundred dollars to recover my photos. This is not looking good. I might not even take my camera on my upcoming Easter Break :(
Despite having no photographic evidence, I did indeed go to Paris on March 20th, Friday. This is the first trip I went on by myself, and needless to say, I was a little nervous. Afraid that I would get lost, somewhat nervous to stay with a girl I hardly knew, and worried about the language barrier. I'm happy to say that all of these worries were quickly dispelled. There might be a lot of grammar errors in this post, but I have a lot to write and no time to edit. Sorry!
I arrived at about 9pm at the Charles DeGaulle Airport, just outside of Paris with only my backpack. I sucessfully made my way out of the airport (small victories, but I am beaming with pride because I can get lost in my own apartment building that I've lived in for months so...) and bought a train ticket and got on the right train. This sounds pretty simple, but you had to be there to know what a complex process this was. It involved taking several wrong turns, asking directions repeatedly, being conviced that I was going the wrong direction on the wrong train, and tying to decipher signs in French. I was very on edge. Then after I got on the train, the annoucer pronouced the stops in such a way (by in such a way, I mean in French) that even given the written options on the map, I didn't know where we were. I had to watch and learn.
These are minor skills that maybe most people have picked up but I'm just beginning. Normally I just have my ipod on and I'm oblivious to my surroundings. But no, this was my thought process: I wanted to get off the train soon, so I start watching to see if you had to signal the driver for your stop. No, no one else was. How did the doors open? The weren't opening automatically. Then I saw someone get off and they released this lever on the door. How do you know what stop we are at if you can't understand the annoucer? Oh, wait, there are huge signs at the stop, on the wall, that say the name of the stop.
The other thing that got me through was that I had researched the train and the stops and what to do online. Also, it turns out, every French person speaks English. I asked a man on the train if he spoke English because I had a question, he looked at me like "of course I do," so then I stopped asking people that first, and just assumed everyone spoke English. The only words I used were merci and pardon. Thanks and sorry (you bump into people a lot.)
Thoughts like these were racing through my mind as I got off at the Luxemburg stop. I was able to use my phone, thank goodness, and called Martha's friend Brittney who met me at the station. Oh another important word "sortie" means exit. Often times the exits are really confusing too. We walked to her apartment. She lives alone. She was a great hostess, which made me feel insecure about my hostess skills. I would assume that a guest would tell me what they needed because I'm foreward like that. However, Brittney was very thoughtful, she asked if I wanted food, made me feel very welcome in her apartment, and bought me a welcome bottle of champagne! The French style of housing just reinforces what I think about Europeans in general, nothing in excess. The food is small portions in tiny packaging and Brittney's apartment, like most of the housing in France is TINY. It was a studio with a bathroom as big as one on a plane. A shower so tiny you can't bend down in it. A stove with two burners and no oven. Yet, it was beautifully decorated and she had a large bed. Her apartment came pre-furnished so there was no shortage of dishes and pans.
After decompressing we went out to a part at one of her friend's houses. I met exchange students from Norway and Holland (who all spoke English with no accent whatsover. Makes me really insecure about not being bilingual) as well as American and French natives. Everyone had a great time. So weird, the host's landlady who was about 70 came to party with the young'ns. Also, this French boy was after me. He told me the best pickup line I've ever heard... I'll write it how he said it, "Ivv you vvvere from my country, I'd make you my vvvife."- If you were from my country, I'd make you my wife and went on to say that I'd live with him and he'd buy me a house. Who said American girls like to hear that? I think he's been watching too much MTV. Meeting all those people was fun. We took the metro (underground train) home at six am. It was funny to be walking around Paris while the sun was coming up and people were all going to work.
Brittney and I woke up the next morning ready to see some sites. I was hungry so we got what looked like partially cooked baguette sandwhiches jambon and fromage (ham and cheese) and he put them in a pannini maker and they came out flat panninis. That is going to bother me for eternity, how can a rounded piece of hard bread become a soft, flat sandwhich. Then we went to Shakespeare and Co which was my favorite thing we had seen.. ok well it was the first thing but I loved it! It's a tiny book store where the books are all in English and the idea is that aspiring artists can stay upstairs for free if they work at the bookstore when they aren't writing. This has resulted in some of the best artists throughout time having passed through there. Also, sometimes they sign a few copies of their books over to the store, so you might buy a famous book to find out that is has been signed by the author themselves. It just had a very intellectual tone to the store. Old and new books were piled in every available space. I loved it so much, I could have stayed for hours.
But no, we were off to Notre Dame. This was a huge, beautiful church. I visited so many churches that I almost feel Catholic. The artwork was amazing. These are the churches that the ones in the US are modeled after. Catholic churches in the US try to be opulent. These really were, they were almost like an art museum with ceiling paintings, sculptures, engravings and carvings on every available surface. However, I don't know how people worship there with a steady flow (I mean there was actually a procession line of tourists weaving through the church snapping photos and being loud) of tourist when the patrons of the church are supposed to go there to reflect and pray.
Then we took the metro, which is the underground railway, to Sacre Coeur. The metro is the main way of getting around in Paris. Granted that London has the Underground, but it is so expensive, the preferred method of transportation is the double decker busses. The metro, though, was only about 1.10 euro each ride. They don't charge by distance, you only have to swipe your ticket to get into the station, then you can ride the train as far as you want. The steps of Sacre Coeur are a gathering place, it looked like the steps of the Capitol Building in the 60s. At least 200 people were sitting really close and a band was singing Beattles songs and everyone was waving their hands in the air. We entered the church, it is the highest place in Paris so you can see the entire city from there.
Then we went to the Eiffel Tower. Like most of the tourist attractions, overrated. However, I like that you can see it from almost anywhere in Paris because they don't have a lot of super super tall buildings. The street preformers make Paris. Anywhere you walk, there is always free entertainment to be had. We saw a guy who climbs lamp posts while spinning a ball on his nose, African drummers, break dancers, a piano player, a guy who cuts profiles of people out of paper in about 1.5 minutes, painters, acordian and harmonica players. Sometimes they would get on the metro and the whole car would start having a singing/dancing party. Especially at night when, I swear, 3/4 of the people on the metro were drunk drunk.

We walked through a park and went back to Brittney's. We stopped at the store and picked up stuff to make dinner. We went back to her place and made the best dinner ever! This really weird, spiral/curly spaghetti. I had a good time on the noodle isle. They had a bunch of mini shapes. Penne that was smaller than a bulletin board pin and all the other shapes in miniature forms. I even brought some to bring back with me! We also got peppers to put in our maranara sauce. At this store, you must take your fresh produce to the weighing man. That is someone's whole job, to stand there and preweigh your food. Also I walked by the meat department. That meat was FRESH. There was poultry with the head still on. The chicken still had some feathers. Some sea creatures I had never seen before and I swear there were cephalopods that were still alive. I was freaking out. I was like we need to leave. So we made our pasta, sauce, and salad.
Later that night we took the metro back to the Eiffle Tower to see the light show. I thought it was going to be like neon search lights and pulsing colors, instead it just looks like the tower is covered in little Christmas tree lights that sparkle. It was cool though. Then we walked down Champs-Elysees, which is like the famous shopping/restaurant street. We also saw the Arc De Triumph which was errected for fallen soldiers after a war.
There was a McDonalds on every corner throughout Paris. One of them was even a McDonald's restarant. You ordered on touch screens and there were nice tables and music playing. Yet, no Starbucks anywhere- there are a ton in London so I was surprised. As Brittney told me, the culture is that coffee is a social activity, you don't take it to go. And there were at least three cafes on every block. All had outdoor seating and the smallest tables you've ever seen. The funniest thing is that they would have two chairs on the same side of the table, facing the street. Every table was set up for people watching, and they aren't subtle about it either. Sometimes they'd even have three chairs on the same side of a table that couldn't have been more than 20 inches in diameter. And they would fit several of these tables in a tiny outdoor space (I go back to my "no excess" observation).
Then we went back home and went to sleep. Thus concludes my first full day. More soon.